So I've caught myself up with some unnecessary arguments again. At least I felt it was unnecessary. It started off with me trying to share out something that made me happy. Suddenly the topic was being used as a comparison instead.
I am at lost to why people enjoy comparing things. Especially when all I wanted to do was to share some good news. :( Putting those aside, I personally feel this argument is rather foolish and should not have taken place in the first place. I'm kind of irritated by the fact that I once again failed to control my words and spoke out of turn.
Actually this argument is sort of a gray zone kind of issue. It should not be used as a comparison, BUT I should NOT have reacted in that manner anyway.
Guess I'll have to apologize because I think the other party strongly sees that the fault is with me. Fault. Blame. Who's right and who's not. I don't really think it matters. If you (or in this case, me) cares, then all this doesn't matter. Things like this are too trivial to actually hurt the relationship between people (unless the other person is a total scumbag which is a constant nuisance in your life).
Well, that's it for now. I hope I'll get this resolved as soon as possible. Maybe I'll try to give a call later. Shall continue to rush my work so I can make it for dinner with her tonight or something. :)
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